We had so many plans before the twins were born. How they would feed, what they would eat, where they would sleep, etc. However, once they were home with us, they had their own agendas and we changed ours as well. I never, in a MILLION years thought that I would have babies sleeping with us in our room. Never! However, when we saw how uncomfortable they were in their expansive cribs, we knew we had to figure something else out. We don't have bedding or bumpers in their cribs, as we know they are unsafe so we think the babies both felt a little vulnerable in there. We decided that they would sleep in bassinets in our room; Chick on K2's side of the bed and Pea on my side. It worked and I was happy to have them in with us. It was convenient for nighttime feedings and I could check on them easily by peeking at them from the vantage point of our bed.
Now, however, they are beginning to wake each other up throughout the night. Chick is more of a sound sleeper and can sleep for 5 hours at a time, while Pea still needs to feed every 3.5 to 4 hours. So, in order to maintain Chick's super sleep schedule, we decided to move her out and into her own room.
**Side note: We bought this monitor at a consignment shop last week and it is AMAZING for making us feel as though our babies are safe. We put this one under Chick's crib so that we could monitor her breathing and movements from our room. We only have one now, but we are trying to buy another through e.bay. ** Two nights ago, we were all ready to make Chick's big transition to her own room. Her crib was ready, the monitor was set up, the temperature in her room was great and she was nice and sleepy. Someone, however, was not so ready for the change. K2 decided, at the last minute, that he couldn't let her sleep all by herself. So, he set up the air mattress in her room and slept on the floor. He did so again last night. I'm not sure how long he will feel the need to sleep with her, but I think he's a pretty amazing dad for wanting to keep her safe and secure.
Another change that we hadn't anticipated is that we will not be rooming the twins with one another as we had expected. When one cries, the other follows suit, so we decided to dismantle the den in preparation for Pea's transition to his room. With this transition happening so quickly, we have to figure out the decor for his room and get the requisite furniture. Looks like we'll be doing some online shopping this weekend.
It just goes to show that you can have all the plans you like, but babies will surely dictate how those plans play out.